Forest and I agreed early on in our 2nd pregnancy that we were going to have another c-section for delivery instead of trying for a VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean). Well, I said I agreed but really I was praying about it all.the.time. I have a friend who had a successful VBAC just a few months before Sloane was born and she said she’d never have another c-section if she could avoid it. I felt like most of my doctors were gently encouraging me to go for a repeat c-section and I knew that both Forest and I agreed that having another c-section was more up our alley in terms of preparedness and knowing when to expect our girl to be here, especially with all of our family coming from out of town and needing someone to watch Peyton while we were in the hospital.
All of that to say, I wanted to do VBAC but after praying for so long about it and talking Forest’s ear off every day about making a decision, we scheduled a c-section for June 6 at 3:00 pm. Thankfully, I got a call a week prior asking if we wanted to move our time up to 7:00 am and I couldn’t say yes fast enough!
^Our last family picture before Sloane – from Peyton’s 2nd birthday 6/2/17
/We arrived at the hospital at 5:30 am and they immediately had me change into a gown a/nd tried to get my IV in to get fluids started. We had the sweetest nurse who tried several times on both arms to get the IV in but it wasn’t working for her, the needle would go in the vein but the tube/catheter thing wouldn’t advance into the vein. After her 3rd or 4th try she called the anesthesiologist (who was so nice and explained everything and was a different guy from Peyton’s birth, thank goodness) so he could numb the area and start the IV without me feeling any pain. They picked such a weird location, on the side of my left wrist, but it finally went in and fluids were flowing.
Sloane, your presence has graced the Earth for T H R E E whole months already and we are so glad you are here!
- People talking to her
- Letting her own voice be heard
- Her hands!!
- Being held while she sleeps (her longest naps are while I’m holding her…)
- Tummy time
- Having her hair washed/rinsed
THINGS TO REMEMBER
- She is grabbing everything now – her shirt, the paci clip, my shirt, her lovie if it’s in her lap. She doesn’t know that she’s grabbing things yet but that will come soon.
- She found her hands! And she sometimes prefers them over the paci.
- She’s kicking and moving all over, especially when she’s excited or hungry. And it’s less flailing and more controlled movements/flapping.
- She slept through the night for the first time (8/17/17) and she’s made it a habit! She’s now sleeping through the night from 10:30 to 7:00!
- Sloane is only napping 30-45 minutes when she isn’t being held so I’m trying to help teach her to sleep longer on her own.
- We made another trip back to Indiana this month so Sloane is officially a road trip professional!
- She likes to watch Peyton and Indie as they move around the room. Although Peyton is generally thisclose to Sloane most of the time. And she’s more aware of toys hanging around her.
- Her smiles are THE BEST! And she’s thankfully very generous with them.
- She’s recently become less of a cuddle bug and usually prefers trying to sit up and look around.
- Tummy time is no fun – she refuses to do anything (lift her head, try to roll over, etc) except kick her legs and grunt with her face on the floor. I try putting a light-up or talking toy in front of her to encourage her to lift her head – she’ll attempt it 1 out of 10 tries. We’ll keep working on it!
- While we were in Indiana on vacation she was exceptionally fussy several days and there was even screaming a few times. We aren’t sure if it’s because she was out of her element at home or since she’s recognizing faces and is more aware of her surroundings that she got overwhelmed or if it was something I was eating but I decided to cut dairy out of my diet to see if it helps. It’s almost been a solid week of no dairy for me and there hasn’t been any screaming and she hasn’t been fussy unless she’s hungry or tired. But now I don’t know if it’s because we’re home and she’s comfortable again or if it’s the dairy-free diet so I’ll give it a few more days and reintroduce the dairy to see what happens…
- A few first for this month – sleeping through the night, beach day, trip to the zoo (Fort Wayne, IN), parade (Labor Day parade in Uplande, IN),
Whew… We love you so much Sloane! You’re growing so fast and you are an absolute joy!
Until next time — Cindy
*All images ae original to A View from the Shore
I blinked and Sloane is now 2 months old. I don’t know how it happens! How do they grow so much in just 4 weeks?!